Love & Transformation Coach
Calling in “The One,”™ Conscious Uncoupling™ , & Transformative Coaching

Access your capacity for LOVE and FREEDOM so you can create the EPIC life you desire!

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As human beings, we thrive on love and connection.

The truth is, when we feel deeply connected within ourselves, we are able to create happy and healthy relationships throughout our lives. Yet, so many of us struggle with self-love and with creating the type of intimate relationships we long for. We may have been hurt or betrayed in the past, we may have suffered trauma not yet healed, we may have simply learned dysfunctional ways of relating. Whatever our reason, we get stuck in repeating patterns and feel frustrated and hopeless to ever create the type of life and love we deeply long for.

  • Perhaps your love life has been filled with tons of drama or maybe it has been non-existent.
  • You may find yourself disconnected from the truth of who you feel you were created to be.
  • Maybe you have found yourself stuck in a relationship that isn’t serving you, while what you really long for seems out of reach.
  • You may have wondered why you continue to attract the same type of “problems” into your life over and over.
  • The relationships in your life may be filled with confusion and pain.
  • Or perhaps you have given up on your deepest desires all together, thinking that it must not be meant for you.

If you are a woman feeling stuck or struggling in your connection to yourself or your relationships with others, I want you to know that

You are not alone and there is help!

Jennifer Joy Butler

Love & Transformation Coach

Jennifer is a highly trained and dedicated professional who is committed to helping empower you to create the life you dream about and manifest the miraculous life you desire. When you choose to act from a place of love, everything becomes an opportunity for your freedom and transformation. Using the cutting-edge technologies of Calling in “The One”™ created by New York Times best-selling author, Katherine Woodward Thomas, along with her own powerful, yet holistic coaching, in just a few short months, you can radically transform your life and have the breakthroughs in love, relationships, and life you have been longing for.

  • Fall deeply in love with YOU
  • Get out of your own way and align with the future you are standing for
  • Awaken your own internal power to manifest the love and life you desire and deserve
  • Identify and transform the painful patterns keeping you stuck
  • Expand your capacity and ability to love and be loved
  • Create happy and healthy relationships in your life
  • Learn the skills you need to maintain a fulfilling and lasting relationship
  • Strengthen and enhance the relationships in your life
  • Manifest the future you choose
  • Become a magnet for the type of love you long for

Are you ready to

Expand Your Capacity to Love and Be Loved So YOU Can Create the Happy and Healthy Relationships and Life You Deeply Desire

How I Can Help You

Calling in “The One”™ Coaching

Transform Your Love Life in Just a Few Short Months

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Relationship Coaching

Strengthen and enhance any of your relationships.

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Self-Discovery Coaching

Fall deeply in love with you and create the life you desire.

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Working with Jenn was the most beautiful gift that I gave to myself this year. Jenn and I connected serendipitously through Instagram and from our first 30 minute consultation I knew that I had to say YES to working with her. I could hear her wisdom through the phone. We worked together for 9 sessions as I went through The Calling In “The One"™ book. I consider myself to be self-aware but I had some serious blindspots when Jenn and I started that she helped me to see and heal. I am still on the journey of self-discovery, however, I feel so much more confident establishing boundaries that enable me to show up and love myself and the people in my life better that ever before. I am so much more connected to who I am and what I want and have shed layers of fear that previously prevented me from taking action towards real change in my life. I ultimately feel so much more at peace and able to handle emotions as they come. Jenn was a constant source of strength for me during this time. She helped me look at the blocks that came from my childhood, society, past trauma in a loving and persistent way that liberated me greatly. If you feel stuck in a situation - whether it be a job, partnership, friendship - and want to be more empowered, with love for yourself as your anchor, I recommend investing in Jenn as your guide. It's clear that she has done the work herself!

— K.S.New York, NY

Anytime I leave a conversation with Jennifer, I feel empowered, grounded and expanded. She is a powerful coach and speaks from a wealth of practical life experience. If you desire to improve your life or need to find a way to move through the pain of a broken or lost relationship, let Jennifer support you! Jennifer will lead you to find your life’s joy! Thank you Jennifer for the work you do and the gift that you are in the world!!

— SusanCA

I have been working with Jenn for about a year and I have undergone many profound transformations! I am still transforming every day. The work IS hard and she challenges you to show up for yourself and face some things you have probably brushed under the rug for years, but after years of trying traditional routes, her course has really helped me find results. After going through the initial CITO course I chose to continue on with our work in other areas of my life and found that you are able to fine tune so many aspects of your life with the same principals. I have her to thank for helping me hold myself accountable and face the things that had been easier to avoid before. I will say that past therapies I have tried focused more on me venting about other people and playing into the victim role and this whole experience has been something much more meaningful and worth while, focusing on myself and my journey in life. I highly recommend the work and her services.

— E.D.Maine

Jennifer is amazing and the Calling in “The One” method has been a life changing experience for me. The work I did with Jennifer has given me tools to support me in my daily life. I have gained so much insight into my own healing process and have been able to move past feeling “stuck.” Anyone wanting to move forward and empower their own life will benefit from working with Jennifer.”

— S.T.New York, NY

Jennifer is a healer with heart. She is dedicated to helping others achieve a healthy balance and grow through their painful experiences. She is genuine and speaks from her own life experience and uses that, along with her natural gifts and wisdom, to offer deep empathy and solid practical resources to help those she works with achieve true transformation. I have been privileged to know her and see how she brings her servant heart to all that she believes in.

— Donna

Jennifer was a joy to work with 😉One of the amazing things about working with Jenn is she is an expert in such a variety of modalities that she is able to see things and offer solutions in a variety of ways where I had blind spots or hadn’t even considered. She’s direct focused and affective yet kind and gentle. She’s been there too so there is no shaming or judgement. I felt comfortable telling her anything and trusted her completely.

— Karyn

I have worked with different coaches prior meeting to Jennifer. The difference was that Jennifer’s powerful questions had an impact on me to think some of the essential concepts which I never thought before. The idea of “how I learned to love and be loved” had never occurred to me till I had my first session with Jennifer. For many, this concept could be basic common sense however, for me it opened multi-dimensional doors to observe my relationship with myself, my daughter and my loved ones. Throughout the session, I felt held with candid love and attention by Jennifer which allowed me to let my guards down and open up. Moreover, her recommendations of books helped me understand some of the themes which came up during our sessions. Lastly, I would like to emphasize how grateful I feel to have found Jennifer in this life whose energy is always uplifting and kind.

— S.A.New York, NY

After my recent breakup, I felt completely heartbroken and alone. I felt stuck and was filled with so much self-doubt and fear. I didn’t trust myself and many of the people that I had in my life. Once I started speaking with Jennifer about everything, I was able to understand what I had been allowing to happen in my life. Her guidance and knowledge helped me to push through all my stuff and quickly. I have never felt more present, alive and ready to take on the world in my entire life!

— Danielle

I wish I had had a coach when I went through my divorce. I wish I had had a coach when I went through every break-up since my divorce. I married my high school sweetheart and divorced at the age of 36. I'm now 53 and still struggling with relationships. I've always been great at my career and horrible at choosing men.

I've had therapists since my early 20's and had one at the time of my divorce (and every break-up since). My therapists always helped me in the moment, but, they were never successful in getting to the core issues that were causing my suffering (and bad decisions in men) and holding me accountable to the changes I needed to make to end the cycles. Maybe I just had bad therapists, but I wanted someone to give it to me straight, someone to shake me out of my trance of fear (staying or leaving) and to help me get going to action. I realize now that I wanted someone who would be by my side, someone who understood but also who would help me focus on me and the future (instead of the past as most of my therapists did). I'm not in a relationship now (by choice) but I have traded in my therapist for a really great coach. And, I've made more progress personally and professionally in a few short months than I ever made in years of therapy. When Jenn described her program to me - the physical, the mental, and the spiritual approach - I wished I'd had the opportunity to work with her 17 years ago. I know I would have made much better choices for myself if I'd had her by my side. I don't fall into regret much (my coach doesn't let me!), but, there are times when I wish I had those 17 years back. My hope is that you don't end up wishing you'd done it differently.

— Amy

I never thought I would find myself divorced. I was in one of the darkest places in my life when I ran across Jennifer at JennJoy Coaching and I was searching for answers to help me make sense of it all. I wasn’t sure about anything in my life but I knew I needed to make a change. When the course first began, I couldn’t see how it would work. I didn’t think I could make that kind of change in 8 weeks but each week began to build on the tools I needed. I was completely stuck in a victim loop and I had no idea how to get out. Jennifer’s course gave me the tools I needed at exactly the right time.

— Chrissy

When I came across Jennifer's program, I was coming out of a 17 year marriage that had ended in divorce. Not only was I facing a deep emotional pain resulting from the divorce, but my oldest child was a senior in high school and soon to graduate and go off to college. I had married and had my children at a young age. Before I had the chance to even begin to know who I was, I was a wife and mother. It became my only identity. I unexpectedly found myself in this place where so much much of my life was changing and with it, my identity was being stripped away. I was struggling emotionally and confused and terrified of what my future held. At best, it appeared that it would be pretty bleak. Unsure where to turn, I confided in friends and family seeking some kind of advice. I read article upon article, self help books, and anything I could get my hands on to try and navigate my way through somehow. While I did receive some good information, I needed something more concrete with step by step tools, a plan. That is when I stumbled onto Jennifer and her program. At first, I have to admit that while extremely excited and hopeful about the program, there was a part of me that was a little skeptical. What if I was so screwed up that no one could help me??? It wasn't long into the program, however, before I started to realize that this was different than anything I had already been trying to do. I found myself excited to see what each new module had in store. This was working!!!! I was targeting old beliefs and patterns that were keeping me stuck and as they were beginning to fall away, my truth was beginning to emerge. I began practicing self love by letting go of negative habits and thought patterns and embracing new positive ones. My focus began shifting and it has made a huge impact on my life. My mindset has shifted and I can see the opportunities and lessons in those challenges I faced. Fear and anxiety no longer steer my life. I have learned how to feel and recognize my emotions and not allow them to consume me. I am learning to trust myself and not rely on others' opinions for validation. I see myself now, the real me that has been smothered trying to prove to myself and others that I was good enough. And better than seeing and knowing myself, is that I actually like myself!! That has been a huge transformational break through for me. I have went from surviving to thriving! I'm excited about my life and what the future holds for me and I would never want to go back to the way I was living my life before. I believe that anyone can benefit from this program and feel beyond blessed to have been given the opportunity to go through it. Seriously, this program is a life changer! Thank you Jennifer. I will forever be grateful to you.

— Tina

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